How I Overcame My Ego and Found Success as a Speaking Coach
At the 2019 Speaker Slam® Grand Slam, the Inspirational Speaking Finals held at Lyric Theatre in Toronto, Marlon Shaw took the stage with a five minute story.
Transcript
What Lies Beneath Merlin's Sharp it was a beautiful Saturday morning as I sat on my favorites walk by the lake in Ajax enjoy my favorite activity Lake therapy meditation affirmation journaling a picture-perfect scene of Tranquility blue skies Golden Sun Ray sparkling out the surface of the lake birds singing in the background I was enjoying my Oneness with nature when a pair of swans floated by and one winked at me on that beautiful morning as a wave gentle cascaded against the Rocks I was filled with joy and gratitude but I couldn't help thinking about the darker days a time when the waves of life wasn't so
gentle it was 2010 and it was right in the way for success as an I.T specialist an amazing three and a half years but I was yearning to go back to being the entrepreneurial life for 15 years prior I was my own boss but now I was ready for new challenge I consulted my trusted advisor who's been in my corner for over 25 years the idea to create a program for teens that focuses on physical fitness and personal development he loved it and although I was walking away from a great solvent huge bonuses he reminded me of my personal mantra strong courageous Unstoppable he was
right within 90 days of our conversation I embark on this new and exciting entrepreneurial Journey 36 months later I was drowning in a sea of death the wave of excitement that had me believing that I'm strong courageous Unstoppable turn into a tidal wave of Devastation that left me doubtful dejected defeated you might be wondering how did I find myself in the sea of indebtedness let me ask you something Have you ever trusted someone so much that you allow them to lead you blindly that was me that same trusted advisor convinced me to rent an expensive unit in a commercial Plaza and then he methodically and
diabolically sabotage all my efforts for the first time in my life I was totally and completely conquered this tired away wiped me out financially emotionally spiritually the warning signs were there alarm Bells were ringing and I chose to ignore them why because I falsely believe in my own mantra I confronted my untrustworthy advisor I demanded to know why he wanted to destroy me where the devil Smiley said that's my role in your life it's my job to build you up with false confidence and tear you down how could someone that I love and Trust be so cruel his words cut Like a Knife now you
might be thinking this is a real person I'm talking about but you couldn't be more wrong see my untrustworthy advisor was actually my ego yes my ego how often is your ego Foster built you up only to tear you down someone once said sometimes you need bad things to happen to inspire you to change and grow it was time for me to grow and change who was controlling my destiny I went from being hopelessly helpless to step into my greatness my spirit no longer broken but it took 18 long months of an internal battle between my ego and I but in the end I won
the war my ego in check the secret meditation affirmation journaling what's your enemy Within what's conquering you on your journey you will encounter a tired a wave of Devastation but it doesn't have to leave you doubtful dejected defeated What Lies Beneath the surface or life lessons to prepare you for your Victory today I'm writing a new wave of success this time as a speaking coach and his own back sit into my favorite Rock joy and gratitude flows through me like the gentle waves cascading off the rocks my ego no longer controls my judgment I'm finally at peace and that's one is still winking at me
thank you
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